An event organiser rather than a fixed venue — running erotic parties at hired Melbourne spaces, with a strict dress code, an unusually explicit consent policy, and dedicated staff whose job is watching for breaches.
What it is
Virtue & Vice describes itself as reinventing the erotic party scene in Melbourne. It sits somewhere between a lifestyle bar and a club night: staged performances, DJs, themed rooms and designated play spaces, produced as an event rather than run as a permanent premises.
That distinction matters practically. There is no fixed address to learn — each event is held at a hired space, most recently in collaboration with Second Story Studios, so the location comes with the event rather than with the brand.
It is also the most explicitly inclusive of the operators we cover. The organisers state they welcome people of all gender identities, sexualities and backgrounds, describe the events as LGBTQ+ friendly, and state they don’t discriminate on age, size, race, looks or sexual preference.
The events
- Play — the larger event, described by the organisers as an erotic neon rave across multiple spaces: a main dancefloor running house and melodic dance, a BDSM area stocked in collaboration with Sehnsucht, and play spaces throughout the venue, with a stage performer line-up.
- The Boudoir — a smaller format, stated as open to female-identifying and non-binary guests and couples, with an erotic dress code and what the organisers describe as a no-tolerance policy on consent breaches.
- The Lovers Lounge — a hosted speed dating evening, grown out of their pop-up playmate speed dating sessions.
Who it’s for — read this before booking
Entry policy varies by event, and their own published material is not consistent on single men. Their site states elsewhere that events are open to couples, femme and non-binary guests, and a limited number of single males — while their FAQ, answering what happens if a female partner leaves early, states that the event is not open to single males and that you would need to leave with her.
The sensible reading is that policy differs between formats and individual events. If you’re a single man, check the specific event listing and contact them before buying a ticket — don’t assume either statement covers the night you’re looking at. For couples, single women and non-binary guests, tickets are straightforwardly available.
Tickets can be bought in advance, and their FAQ states they can also be purchased at the door by cash or card.
The dress code is genuinely strict
This is the thing most likely to catch out someone used to the lifestyle bars. Virtue & Vice requires erotic and revealing dress as a strict condition of entry, and explicitly rules out club attire or “anything considered socially acceptable in public.”
Their stated range is lingerie, erotic costumes, fetish wear, see-through outfits and varying levels of nudity. Some events carry a theme, but they note that erotic dress alone is always sufficient if a theme doesn’t appeal.
Practically, they handle this well: on arrival you’re directed to a private space to change out of your street clothes, and cloakroom staff store your belongings. You travel in normal clothes and change on site.
Consent, in their own words
Virtue & Vice publishes one of the more direct consent policies in the Melbourne scene, and it’s worth reading in full on their site. The stated rules include:
- No contact of any kind without express consent from both parties — and that the absence of a “no” does not mean “yes”
- Respect for personal space unless invited in, with “cheeky gropes and sly brushes” specifically called out as unwelcome
- Reading body language when asking, and not being pushy in requests
- Not interrupting other guests during play unless expressly welcomed
- Stopping immediately and without question if asked, at any time
- Breaching any of the above means being asked to leave immediately, with no refund
Each event is staffed by what they call consent angels — a team roaming the space to check safety practices are being respected. If you feel uncomfortable, their stated process is to approach staff, who will intervene tactfully and with your consent.
For a first-time attendee, that combination — published rules, staff whose sole job is watching for breaches, and a no-refund removal policy — is a meaningful signal about how the room is run.
Practical notes
- Phones and photos. Phones are permitted in the venue, but taking photos during the event is generally not allowed. They provide a designated photo space where you can take pictures without anyone appearing in the background.
- Limits. They state they don’t judge or kink shame, but ask guests to avoid blood and medical play, as the events aren’t set up to do it safely and hygienically.
- Accessibility. Their FAQ notes two steps at the main entrance, with an alternative entrance available for anyone unable to manage stairs — contact them ahead of time to arrange it.
- Belongings. A cloakroom is provided, though they note your possessions remain your responsibility.
Who it suits
Virtue & Vice suits people who want a produced, high-energy erotic party rather than a bar with a social floor. If the appeal is dancing, performances and atmosphere, this is the closest of the operators we cover.
It suits people who want an explicitly queer-inclusive room — it’s the clearest of the operators we cover on that front.
It suits people comfortable with a demanding dress code. If wearing lingerie or fetish wear in a room full of strangers sounds like too much for a first outing, start at one of the lifestyle bars instead and come here later.
It suits single men least reliably, not because they’re unwelcome in principle but because the policy varies and needs checking each time.
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Event dates, ticket prices, themes and the current entry policy are all on their own site, which is the only authoritative source. We don’t sell tickets and aren’t affiliated with them.
See how Virtue & Vice compares on our ranking of the best swingers clubs in Melbourne, judged against published criteria.
Everything above is drawn from Virtue & Vice’s own public website and checked when published. Because they run events at hired spaces rather than a fixed venue, details change more often than they do for a permanent bar — always confirm before booking. See also: all Melbourne venues, what’s on this weekend, and the dress code guide.
Details checked 9 August 2026. Venues change things at short notice — always confirm on their own site before booking. Spotted something wrong? Tell us.